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How to give amazing blowjobs – 14 tips to send him to seventh heaven

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How to give amazing blowjobs – 14 tips to send him to seventh heaven
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How to send a man to seventh heaven? Of course, there is no such thing as a ready-made response, as everyone has their own preferences, but a few well advised recommendations are sure to help. For anyone who wants to truly perfect their fellatio, also known as the much appreciated blowjob, don’t waste any more time and follow this guide for unforgettable frolics!

But before we get started, above all, don’t take any risks. If you don’t know your partner very well, use a condom.

Once the fun has started, don’t hesitate to ask your other half “how is that?”, in order to be sure you are doing what they like.

1. First step: salivate

You should make sure that the lucky gentleman always stays semi moist. In fact, the penis is a very sensitive part of the body. Without saliva, it could become irritated.

In order to humidify the area, don’t spit on it, but place a little saliva on the penis, before gently guiding it downwards.

2. Don’t forget to breathe

Let’s say it from the start: you can’t give a blowjob if you can’t breathe. It wouldn’t be great for your partner, as you would barely be able to last a minute, and you may be disappointed that you can’t please him. Overall, don’t try to see how long you can last without breathing – this is not the time to see how long you can hold your breath for! 

Start by breathing deeply through your nose. When you are at ease with the movement, you can increase the speed.

There is nothing to stop you from breathing through your mouth if you are lacking air. In this case, open your mouth wide (to ensure your teeth don’t scrape the penis), and slide your tongue along the shaft. It will be great for both of you!

3. Don’t hesitate to show your enjoyment

You should show your man that you are enjoying yourself. If you feel like it, give a few discreet little moans. If you are shy, breathe a little heavier and louder.

Look into his eyes from time to time.

4. Get to know his sensitive zones

Do you know the areas that drive him wild? We’ll help you: the frenulum (the small ridge of tissue that links the foreskin to the penis), the corona of the glans (the tissue that goes around the base of the head of the penis), the testicles (to be manipulated very gently) and…. the prostate. However, be aware that some men don’t like to have the prostate stimulated. If you want to know whether or not you can go exploring, ask him.

5. Adapt the pressure

As stated previously, certain zones on the penis are erogenous, but also sensitive and fragile.

You can gently grasp the shaft with your hands, but never compress the head of the penis. The same goes for your mouth: when you work your way down, gradually tighten your lips, and when you go back up, loosen them.

6. Observe his reactions

At the start of a relationship, we don’t know our partner’s tastes and preferences. It is therefore necessary to talk about your common desires – for all sexual activities, mutual consent is obligatory – and then start trying things out.

In terms of blow jobs, start by having your man lie on his back, his legs spread, and place yourself between his legs. Depending on what you are doing, his thighs will contract and relax. You can use this information to gauge how much he likes what you are trying, and thus concentrate on the most sensitive areas the next time.

7. Masturbate him at the same time

Some men love to be masturbated during a blowjob. In order to do so, simply wrap your thumb and index finger around the shaft, underneath your mouth. Follow the same rhythm as your lips with your hand. 

Other men prefer that your hands are used to stimulate the erogenous zones near the penis, such as the inner thighs, for example.

Others again prefer it when you don’t use your hands at all.

In short, there is no golden rule. The only recommendation: talk about it with your boyfriend in order to give him the perfect blowjob for him.